It's your call. 13th birthday might just be another birthday for some, while it's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for some to celebrate. On a serious note, if asked what would be the perfect birthday party idea for the day you turn 13, I'd say, go out, and make a kid smile. Gift chocolates and eatables to those children of your age, you see everyday but are not familiar. Spend some time with them. You may be too young to realize the contentment it gives, but then, when you grow up, and you'll recall your 13th birthday, you'll witness one of those rarest moments in life; tears and smile, at the same time.